When “No” Just Means You’re Asking the Wrong Person

When something in my life feels off, I literally cannot tolerate it. Like… my whole body rejects it. It doesn’t matter if it’s a job, a vibe, a relationship, or even a cluttered drawer—if it doesn’t feel peaceful, I feel physically unwell. I think it stems back to being in a full body cast at the age of two. I had no control over what was happening, and that experience must’ve wired me to never settle for discomfort again.